Kay Carrington Gardner thumbnail

Kay Carrington Gardner

Passed Away: March 17, 2020

Kay Carrington Gardner, born July 21, 1945 at Mary Immaculate Hospital in Newport News VA, a graduate of Ferguson High School, died in her Williamsburg home on March 17th, 2020. She is proceeded in death by her son Robert Curtis Parker, her husbands Abraham Gardner and Henry Sheldon, her brother Carl W. Nettles II and her parents Carl W. Nettles and Irma Carrington Evans.

Kay loved the ocean and the Hampton Roads area but spent much of her life traveling the world with friends and family. She worked side by side with her former husband Hank in managing Sheldon Motors where she oversaw the operations of the Jartran truck rental business that transitioned into Hertz Penske truck rentals which ranked #5 in the nation. Continuing her entrepreneurship endeavors, she partnered with Hank and created a business consulting group, Trivets, and assisted in the expansion of The Disabled American Veterans Thrift Stores in the Hampton Roads area. Many years after Hank’s passing, on a trip to Turkey, she met her last love, Abe. They spent many fun-filled years together enjoying all that this life had to offer.

She was a lady with gracious southern charm, a loving mother and a steadfast friend. Those who knew her would certainly agree that she was also a force of nature who exhibited generosity, kindness and a concern for others. She was an avid volunteer with local Alzheimer’s groups, giving to others in need through national and local charities, a contributor of the arts and a woman of faith. She was also a big supporter of the local business economy in Williamsburg through her love of shopping.

She is survived by her daughter Ashlie Carrington Parker and husband Charles Slepicka of Illinois, her granddog Hershey of Williamsburg and Beauxregard of Illinois, her stepchildren Laura Huben of North Carolina, Brooke Gardner and wife Jodi Spragins of Pennsylvania, Alan Gardner and wife Gwen of North Carolina, Rick Gardner and wife Marilyn of California, her stepson Keith Sheldon of Virginia, and Michael Sheldon of Alabama and a host of grandchildren including Amanda, Kelly and Paige Huben, Meredith Smith, Drew, Ainsley, and Anna Gardner and Christina and Michael Sheldon, and great grandchildren Luke Smith and Christian and Zachary Sheldon.

Visitation is to take place at Bucktrout Funeral Home on Monday, March 23rd from 4 to 7 PM. Because of the current world health crisis, there will be protocols in place to ensure the safety of all who choose to visit with her.

Services will take place at a date to be determined but will of course be a true celebration of her life.

In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the American Heart and Lung Foundations as well as the Alzheimer’s Foundation.

Service Information

Visitation Information

Date: Monday, March 23, 2020

Time: 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm


Bucktrout Funeral Home

4124 Ironbound Road
Williamsburg, VA 23188

Life Event Timeline

Help tell the story of Kay by contributing to the Life Event Timeline. Upload the photo of an event...

Post an Event

Leave a Condolence

View All Condolences Post a Condolence

What our families say...

“We appreciate all that Bucktrout Funeral Home provides to the residents of Williamsburg.”


A Session ID is required to purchase jewelry with your loved one's fingerprint, click here to continue. If you do not have an ID, click here to contact us to get your Session ID.